
If you follow Music Dept, you already know that we LOVE surprise performances! Late in March 2021 we got a call from a gentleman planning a very special proposal and wanting to incorporate live music. It’s always great to help clients brainstorm and explore different options, but this guy knew exactly what he wanted-an incredible singer/guitarist to perform “Can’t Help Falling in Love” moments before he proposes to his girlfriend! He also referenced the version from Crazy Rich Asians.
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I immediately thought of Sandra Small. Her strong and beautiful voice and rock solid guitar chops would be the perfect for this brief and impactful moment of music. Sandra even recorded a rough-demo of herself singing the song so that our client could get a feel for her sound.
With any surprise performance, planning, flexibility, and teamwork are essential. We made small adjustments to timing and delayed by a day(due to weather.) The venue RH Rooftop allowed Sandra to stash her guitar out of site and blend into the crowd until the perfect moment. Jenna, the photographer, was also a tremendous help and we are so grateful to be able to share her incredible photos of the day. Definitely be sure to check her work out if you’re planning a wedding, proposal, or elopement.


How to Plan a Proposal with a Live Musician in New York City
NYC has so many incredible and romantic public spaces, but it’s important to remember that there are things in a public space that are beyond your control. It maybe noisy, crowded, or in rare occasions live music maybe prohibited. We know this landscape well and always educate our clients on the pros and cons of any location. Although the majority of our proposal performances do take place in iconic public spaces(Central Park, Brooklyn Bridge, etc) we’ve had some great ones in private spaces like restaurants, venues, and landmarks that must be reserved.
These steps could seem interchangeable, but some songs and performers or bands would work better in some locations than others. This sort of song selection is always a special request and our musicians love to learn and perform new songs for proposals. Because live music for a wedding proposal is such a powerful and laser focused moment we typically have the performer record a short demo of the specific song-this way the client knows exactly what it will sound like.
It can be tricky to coordinate a surprise performance, so we always suggest having a call with one of our coordinators to go into detail. Sometimes the person proposing wants to be walking along together and then come upon a performer and other times they will wait with the performer and the significant other will come upon them. It can also be stressful if the person proposing is the musician’s only contact. So, if you’re going to have anyone else around, like a close friend or hired photographer, its a great idea to make this person the musician’s contact.

Artem Lomaz(Ninety Three Entertainment) and Adam Lomeo (Music Dept) share tips, stories, and behind the scenes perspective about personalized entertainment for weddings. The conversation covers every element of a wedding; Rehearsal Dinner, Ceremony, Cocktail Hour, Reception, and After-Party. Adam Lomeo is a pro-guitarist and the founder of live music for events agency Music Dept. musicdept.com Artem Lomaz is a wedding emcee and host with Ninety Three Entertainment. https://www.93entertainmentnj.com/

Photo by: Novella Photography

Rum Runners Jazz Trio, at Soho Grand Hotel Rooftop Wedding, Photography by: Delgado Studios 2014
Hiring a jazz band for your wedding is a timeless and elegant choice for cocktail hour. A jazz group can also be a great fit for dinner and dancing, especially if there is a vocalist. “Jazz” is a wide-ranging genre. There is a big difference between the music of John Coltrane and Michael Buble, but we have clients who request songs by both artists! Music Dept founder, Adam Lomeo, is a NYC jazz guitarist, so jazz is very near to our heart and we are so honored when our client’s request jazz music for their wedding.













Jazz groups are almost always a great choice for a cocktail hour. We don’t typically recommend Jazz music for ceremony. However, our jazz musicians are very versatile and can definitely play mellow instrumental covers or classical for your ceremony
If you and your guests love swing music like Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, and Mike Buble they will have a blast dancing to a jazz band. That said, if a great dance party is essential to your wedding we recommend a versatile band that can shift into some pop, R&B, and other dance friendly styles. It’s also great to combine a classic jazz band with a DJ.
Solo jazz guitar or keyboard are great choices for ceremony or cocktail hour. Duos, Trios, and Quartets are also great for upbeat and elegant atmosphere at any point during the wedding. If you want to feature a jazz band during your wedding reception we recommend 5 or more players and a vocalist.
Absolutely! Jazz musicians have extremely wide-repertoire. If you’re looking for jazz songs then chances are they already know them. However, if many of the requests are from an entirely different genre it might be a good idea to look at one of our other bands. We have bands that do a great play Jazz for cocktail hour as background, but the groups on this page can play a full evening of great and varied jazz songs. These are concert-level NYC jazz musicians who have the event savvy to step up and deliver for your wedding.

Who doesn’t love a surprise first dance! Especially when it’s set to live music overlooking Brooklyn Bridge.
Amy reached out a few months prior to her May 2019 elopement in NYC. She explained that she and her fiancee lived in Chicago and they planned to elope in NYC and fly out for Europe the very same day. Since they wouldn’t be having a wedding reception, she wanted to have a very intimate and low-key surprise first dance.
Amy and Krystal would elope at City Hall and then cross over to Brooklyn Bridge park for pictures. The micro-wedding party included a handful of close girlfriends and the photographer. While the group walked along the boardwalk our musicians would begin to play John Legend’s “All of Me” and follow up with “Your Song” by Elton John.
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Plan Surprise Music!We worked super closely on the planning and coordination with Alexis at City Love Photography. She took all the amazing photos in this post and was instrumental in bringing the day together!

Our mobile “busking” duo included Adam Lomeo on Guitar and Brittany Henderson on vocals. We set up with a battery powered PA system, which really helped as we had to contend with some wind off the water.


The surprise came off beautifully and it was an absolutely perfect moment with hugs and tears all around!

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How do you get the most value from your wedding music budget? Some people say that the way to decrease cost for music is to skip the live band and DJ. After all you can just use a playlist from an ipod. I’m a bit-biased as the owner of The Music Dept – Home, but this is more like faking music than decreasing the cost. Here are my four in-depth steps to get the most from your music budget:
Lastly, the best way to save money is not to start by picking your dream band and then trying to negotiate them down to your actual budget. Music is a business like any other there are real costs for band(s), individual musicians, and agencies. There is a tipping point in negotiation at which the price becomes too low for the performance to be up to the usual standard. A reputable pro will walk away before things get to this point, but situations where companies will do anything to close the contract are a recipe for disaster(and nasty Yelp reviews!) Suppose that the keyboard player is working for 40% less than usual that day. So, he decides not to cancel that last lesson he teaches. He leaves a little later than the extra-conservative usual, hits some traffic, and he’s late for the ceremony. Or perhaps the DJ usually rents an extra high-quality wireless mic for a wedding in the super-frequency jammed area of midtown Manhattan. But with the negotiated price the rental cost is the difference between whether or not its a date worth taking, so the speeches are interrupted by static interference.
99% of wedding musicians will go above and beyond for their clients. This is a customer serviced based business and everyone is almost trained to say ‘yes.’ However, if the budget is tight and musicians are trying to over-deliver there can be a snowball effect where little details that would normally be addressed can go by the wayside and the success of the performance can be endangered. The blame for the situations above would rest on the musicians, but I’ve seen many situations(especially involving high-ticket bands and DJs) where an over-negotiating sales person leads to a booking that really shouldn’t have happened and in the harsh reality of live performance the little details that where overlooked can become glaring mistakes. Again, an experienced professional will recognize this danger and walk away or scale back the overall scope of the music services before committing to a wedding they can’t deliver with aplomb. However, couples should be aware of this potential pitfall if they drive a hard bargain for the lowest possible price a vendor will work at.
A limited wedding music budget should never stop everyone from having an incredible time. If both the couple and musicians are smart, resourceful, and flexible its really not that hard to enjoy incredible music throughout the wedding.