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Watch DJ LesTok Highlights from Liberty Prime Wedding

January 7, 2025
News, Weddings
event planning, jersey wedding, wedding DJ, Wedding Music

Cello, Guitar, and Queen Make a Perfect Beach Club Wedding

February 24, 2023
News, Weddings

After launching the concept in 2020, our Cello and Guitar duo has become one of our most popular ensembles for Wedding Ceremony and Cocktail Hour. This especially sweet wedding ceremony took place at the Owenego Beach Club in Brandford, CT in Summer of 2022.

Owenego is definitely a venue to consider if you’re looking for a coastal New England setting within a few hours drive of NYC. It has a sort of mid-century nostalgia about it that we found charming, and of course the views are incredible!

Wedding Ceremony at Owenego Beach Club, Photo by Jennifer Simonton of After It All Co. 

Our good friend and wedding planner Marian Versalko at Marian Frances Weddings connected us with the couple and we worked together throughout the planning process. The Ceremony took place on an expansive lawn perched high above Long Island sound. We provided a wireless mic for the officiant and set up under the shelter of a nearby tree.

Cello and Guitar is such a versatile combination. We are definitely not the only ones offering it, but what sets us apart is the rhythmic drive and energy that we bring to the music. The default for Cello and Nylon String Guitar maybe lovely and serene romantic melodies, but we also embrace the more percussive sides of our instruments and love to play pop songs from all-eras as special requests for Wedding Ceremony.

During the consultation with the couple, they shared that they really loved the music of Queen. We started bouncing song ideas around and quickly arrived at a wedding Ceremony made up entirely of Queen songs.

  • Prelude: “Somebody to Love”
  • Processional: “We Are the Champions”
  • Recessional: “Crazy Little Thing Called Love”
Guitar and Cello Duo at Owenego Beach Club, Photo by Jennifer Simonton of After It All Co. 

We loved the how thematic these Ceremony selections where! And, of course with the music being instrumental the theme was subtle enough never to feel cheesy or overshadowing the ceremony itself. After the recessional our duo moved to a gazebo for Cocktail Hour. We continued with classic rock and romantic favorites, like Elton John’s “Your Song.”

One insider tip for couples planning live music for Ceremony and Cocktail hour is that we didn’t actually book the Cocktail Hour until about a month before the wedding. The couple was sure that they wanted us for Ceremony, but Cocktails wasn’t decided yet. We gave a quote for adding cocktails and said it would be that price as long as they decided by a certain date. Whether or not we also played Cocktails wasn’t going to impact our big picture planning or even scheduling for that day, because the venue was already somewhat of a destination. This makes it easier for a couple to make the most important decisions first and avoid getting overwhelmed in the wedding planning process.

View of Ceremony Setup, Guitar and Cello Duo at Owenego Beach Club, Photo by Jennifer Simonton of After It All Co. 

All Photos Credited To: @afteritallco (Jennifer Simonton)

Planning: @laurennemchik / @marianfrancesevents

One Day More: Gino’s Pizza & Ice Skates

February 23, 2023
Articles and Tips, News, Weddings

Surprise Song with Custom Lyrics Performed at Rehearsal Dinner

Late in 2021, one of our longtime clients on Long Island reached out to share that he was planning an epic musical surprise for his son’s wedding: a totally re-written version of “One Day More” from Les Misérables. He wanted it to be performed live in tribute to the Bride and Groom with many family members singing, and as a total surprise to everyone else! He said it might take a while to get the family on-board. After a while he found out that he was really the only family member comfortable jumping up and belting out an iconic Broadway anthem in a Long Island Steakhouse. So, we shifted course and arrived at the idea of having professional singers deliver the surprise performance.

The performance at Opus Steakhouse was a HUGE success. We disguised the pro-singers as servers and planted them in various sections of the private dining room. One of our tech’s also set-up a speaker system and played background music throughout the first half of the event. He simply told unsuspecting guests that he was a DJ that the Father of the Groom had hired. This ‘hiding in plain sight’ worked really well as other family members began to ask to use the wireless mic for toasts and their own speeches.

Unknown to the Father of the Groom, one of the sons approached our tech/DJ and asked us to play the “Saturday Night Live” Theme song in the background while they introduced the family in the tone of the SNL announcer! This was almost like a rehearsal of the Wedding Introductions to take place at the reception the next day. This totally improvised bit turned out to be very funny, and also set a tone for the bigger surprise ahead.

We’ve written quite a bit about surprise performances but what I want to focus on here is the custom song writing. Our client has a longstanding relationship with musician, Larry Siegel. Larry typically performs at their home on the night before Thanksgiving, which they call “Friendsgiving.”

Larry is a master of many things, but one of his unique talents is re-writing iconic songs as a ‘parody’ or ‘tribute’ to a specific person or organization. This particular client is a big fan of this sort of surprise! They previously commissioned us to have Larry write and record a version of “Desperado” to one of their close friends whose name lined up well with the syllables.

What are our steps to writing a great custom song:

  1. Choose the song

    The song should be very famous or even iconic. The meaning of the original song should also be considered. The struggling characters of “One Day More” create a comical foil against the light and joyful details of our couple’s journey to their wedding day. In another case, the American Songbook standard, “Thanks for the Memories” was re-written as a retirement song.

  2. Share details with the lyricist

    This process isn’t for someone who’s shy! Funny, personal, and even slightly embarrassing details make for the best custom song. Oftentimes we will request additional details or more
    biographical factoids to focus the direction of the song.

  3. Get a demo

    It is so easy for our musicians to do a simple demo recording on their phone. This type of project can be very subjective, and how something appears written on a lyric sheet is certainly not the same as hearing it sung. These demos can be revised a few times as we get closer to the finished song

  4. Deliver the performance

    There are so many ways to deliver a custom song performance. It could be an intricate live surprise, like the flash-mob style singers for “One Day More” or even a pre-recorded video.

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How To Plan Live Music for NYC Proposal

April 7, 2021
News, Weddings
guitar engagement, musical proposal, nyc weddings, RH Rooftop Live Music, surprise musician, surprise performance, wedding blog, Wedding Music

If you follow Music Dept, you already know that we LOVE surprise performances! Late in March 2021 we got a call from a gentleman planning a very special proposal and wanting to incorporate live music. It’s always great to help clients brainstorm and explore different options, but this guy knew exactly what he wanted-an incredible singer/guitarist to perform “Can’t Help Falling in Love” moments before he proposes to his girlfriend! He also referenced the version from Crazy Rich Asians.

ALL PHOTOS From Jenna Cavanaugh, Wedding and Elopement Photographer

Singer & Guitarist, Sandra Small, RH Rooftop, Jenna Cavanaugh Photography, 2021

I immediately thought of Sandra Small. Her strong and beautiful voice and rock solid guitar chops would be the perfect for this brief and impactful moment of music. Sandra even recorded a rough-demo of herself singing the song so that our client could get a feel for her sound.

With any surprise performance, planning, flexibility, and teamwork are essential. We made small adjustments to timing and delayed by a day(due to weather.) The venue RH Rooftop allowed Sandra to stash her guitar out of site and blend into the crowd until the perfect moment. Jenna, the photographer, was also a tremendous help and we are so grateful to be able to share her incredible photos of the day. Definitely be sure to check her work out if you’re planning a wedding, proposal, or elopement.

Sandra Singing for Surprise NYC Engagement Proposal, Jenna Cavanaugh Photography, 2021
Wedding Proposal with Live Music, Jenna Cavanaugh Photography, 2021

How to Plan a Proposal with a Live Musician in New York City

  1. Pick the Location

    NYC has so many incredible and romantic public spaces, but it’s important to remember that there are things in a public space that are beyond your control. It maybe noisy, crowded, or in rare occasions live music maybe prohibited. We know this landscape well and always educate our clients on the pros and cons of any location. Although the majority of our proposal performances do take place in iconic public spaces(Central Park, Brooklyn Bridge, etc) we’ve had some great ones in private spaces like restaurants, venues, and landmarks that must be reserved.

  2. Pick the Song & Performer

    These steps could seem interchangeable, but some songs and performers or bands would work better in some locations than others. This sort of song selection is always a special request and our musicians love to learn and perform new songs for proposals. Because live music for a wedding proposal is such a powerful and laser focused moment we typically have the performer record a short demo of the specific song-this way the client knows exactly what it will sound like.

  3. Coordinate the Logistics

    It can be tricky to coordinate a surprise performance, so we always suggest having a call with one of our coordinators to go into detail. Sometimes the person proposing wants to be walking along together and then come upon a performer and other times they will wait with the performer and the significant other will come upon them. It can also be stressful if the person proposing is the musician’s only contact. So, if you’re going to have anyone else around, like a close friend or hired photographer, its a great idea to make this person the musician’s contact.

Solo Guitar Wedding Ceremony

February 27, 2021
Articles and Tips, Events, Weddings
classical guitar wedding, fingerstyle guitarist, guitar covers wedding, hire guitarist, micro-wedding, solo guitar, wedding ceremony music

Beautiful & Flexible Live Music

Being a guitarist, I’m inherently biased towards Solo guitar as a wedding ceremony music option. The guitar draws on the classical elegance of Harp or a String Quartet while also being able to dip into contemporary pop styles. When I’m consulting with couples about their wedding music I often suggest a progression of gently contrasting styles to highlight the ceremony. For example, the prelude could be entirely classical music but then the bridal party processional is a Stevie Wonder song! Or perhaps the stylistic shift is saved for the Bridal processional to give an added emphasis.

Music Theory Proves Guitar is the Wedding Music MVP

Here’s a quick Music Theory 101. Music is made up of organized pitches and rhythms. Pitches(or notes) can either be played one at a time or in groups-which are called chords. If you have a string quartet than each player can play one(or sometimes two notes at a time.) Therefore, the strings combine to form chords while one instrument(usually the first violin) plays the melody. 

There are a handful of instruments that can play both melody and chords at the same time. These are the Guitar, Piano/Keyboard, Harp, and Accordion. Of these the Guitar and Accordion are the most portable, so great for all sorts of Wedding Ceremony locations. While I love the accordion! Guitar is definitely the more stylistically versatile and popular! So, Guitar wins :) 

Styles of Music for Solo Guitar Wedding Ceremony

Classical

The most traditional choice is classical guitar. This is a Nylon-String(aka Spanish Guitar) with a soft and beautiful tone. Classical guitar can play music from Bach, Mozart, Haydn, and Pachelbel – essentially all of the classical repertoire that a String Quartet might play for Wedding Ceremony. There is also a wide-variety of Guitar specific classical music from composers like Heitor Villa-Lobos, Agustin Barrios, Francisco Tarrega, and many others.

Classical Music on Nylon String Guitar

Contemporary

Another great thing about the guitar is that you can play any type of song on any version of the guitar! So, while the nylon string is ideal for the classical repertoire above it can also be used for Pop, Folk, Jazz, or Classic Rock Covers. Solo Instrumental guitar can play almost any genre. Virtuoso players like Tommy Emanuel or Sungha Jun have made this instrumental guitar style extremely popular both on YouTube and in Live-Venues! 5 of Today’s Best Fingerstyle Guitarists Beatles, Beach Boys, Journey, Rolling Stones, Allman Brothers, Folk Songs, Alternative Rock, Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, the list of songs and artists is almost endless. 

Smokey Robinson Cover on Steel-String Acoustic Guitar

Types of Guitars for Wedding Ceremony Music

  • Nylon String Guitar
  • Steel String Acoustic
  • Electric Guitar
  • Ukulele -OK this isn’t a guitar, but all our guitarists also play Uke and it so much fun for a wedding ceremony
  • Mandolin -This is another really fun instrument to mix-in. It works great for Italian Music or Country/Folk Styles.
Electric Guitar Ballad for Wedding Ceremony

Building on Solo-Guitar

While guitar can play Chords and Melody at the same time, it is also a wonderful team player. For a wedding ceremony it works beautifully to add an instrument which can focus on the melody only while the guitar flips back and forth between sharing the melody and playing a chord accompaniment. Here are a few ideas:

  • Guitar and Cello *Check out our group Clerida & Adam
  • Guitar and Violin
  • Guitar and Voice
  • Guitar and Acoustic Bass
  • Guitar and Flute
  • Guitar and Sax
  • Guitar and Trumpet

Another fun idea is to combine several guitars together! After a few such requests, Music Dept developed its Guitar Trio, STRING 18.

One of our most popular live music plans begins with Solo Guitar for Wedding Ceremony followed by live music for Cocktail Hour. The Cocktail Hour music could be more solo guitar, perhaps changing into a different style or guitar sound, or the guitarist could be joined by other players. One great option is to be joined by a Bassist and Horn player to form a Jazz Trio.

The portability and flexibility of the guitar is another advantage. A guitarist with a small amp can move between the Ceremony and Cocktail Hour area quicker than your guests can line up at the bar. 

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FAQ: Hire Guitar for Wedding Ceremony

How much is a Solo Guitar Wedding Ceremony?

Our options begin at $400

Will one guitar be loud enough for a large wedding?

Any of the “Acoustic Guitar” options listed above can be amplified. The Bose L1 Tower PA system is our favorite choice for clean, clear, and controlled volume for guitar. We can also run a wireless mic through this system for speaking during the ceremony.

Do you take requests?

Absolutely! The song-selections for Wedding Processional, Bridal Processional, and Recessional are so important and we feel that the choices should be personal to the couple. The versatility and flexibility of the guitar make it the ideal instrument for special song requests.

How much space does a guitarist take up?

Solo Guitar is an extremely compact and space efficient choice. A 5×5 area is totally sufficient for guitarist and compact sound system. The guitar also does very well with playing outdoors and in the elements. We even have battery powered speakers, so that our guitarists can still be heard in rustic and outdoor ceremony settings.

Personalized Wedding Entertainment

November 25, 2020
Articles and Tips, News, Weddings
custom wedding, personalization, real weddings, Wedding, wedding blog, wedding emcee, Wedding Music, wedding stories

In-Depth Conversation with Event Pros: Adam Lomeo and Artem Lomaz

Artem Lomaz(Ninety Three Entertainment) and Adam Lomeo (Music Dept) share tips, stories, and behind the scenes perspective about personalized entertainment for weddings. The conversation covers every element of a wedding; Rehearsal Dinner, Ceremony, Cocktail Hour, Reception, and After-Party. Adam Lomeo is a pro-guitarist and the founder of live music for events agency Music Dept. musicdept.com Artem Lomaz is a wedding emcee and host with Ninety Three Entertainment. https://www.93entertainmentnj.com/

Check out the Full Video!

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November 3, 2020
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Live Music for Micro-Weddings

June 1, 2020
Articles and Tips, Events, Weddings
brooklyn weddings, COVID Wedding, elopement, lgbt weddings, micro-weddings, Small Wedding Music

Small Groups, Big Emotions

We absolutely love adding live music to micro-weddings.  All of the big emotional moments which call for live music are even bigger in a micro-wedding!

The photo above is from one of our favorite weddings ever. Check out the full blog-post. It features even more great photography from City Love Photography.

Hold on, what’s a micro-wedding?

A micro wedding is any ceremony and/or reception with less than 50 total guests. With the social distancing restrictions brought on by COVID, couples are trimming their guest-count and enjoying a small and intimate party. Couples often combine an elopement and a reception to create their micro-wedding format, but you have the option to do both with a smaller party. Some married couples even choose to do a micro wedding style party for their anniversary or vow renewal. From Wedding-Spot.com

Great article from Boston Magazine on why Micro-Weddings are the way to go in 2020

How to have live-music for a micro-wedding

When it comes to music for small and intimate weddings solo, duos, and trios are ideal. For the ceremony we recommend solo guitar, harp, or any number of instrumental duos. If you’re having music for cocktails and dinner these musicians can absolutely play light background music. However, this shouldn’t just be bland elevator music, the musicians impact will be even greater with such a small number of guests. We suggest unique and customized music which you find most meaningful.

How does Music Dept Choose Musicians for a Micro-Wedding?

Extremely carefully! If you have fewer than 50 guests the interaction with the musicians is going to be much more intimate than in a 200+ guest wedding. While we only work with musicians who have great vibes and professionalism, this goes double for micro-weddings. There is really nowhere to hide, musically or energetically. No jaded players or hired -guns. No checking the cell-phone during the vows! These players are ready to be an integral and fully invested member of your select wedding party.

  • Adam Lomeo
    Adam Lomeo
  • Erica Mancini
    Erica Mancini
  • Guitar Cello Duo
    Guitar & Cello
    Guitar & Cello
  • Margot
    Margot
  • Sami Eldebs
    Sami Eldebs
  • Sandra Small
    Sandra Small

FAQ: Live Music for Intimate Weddings

How much is live music for micro-weddings?

Our options begin at $350

Will the music be too loud?

All of our musicians are super-sensitive to volume concerns, but this goes double for micro-weddings. The musicians we work with for these celebrations are almost like mini-event planners. Conscientious and then some :-)

Can we still have a first-dance?

Absolutely! Check out our blog post on Surprise First Dance for Micro-Wedding.

Will our guests dance?

Duos and Trios are not as well suited for dance-music as a 4-5 piece band or DJ. However, in a smaller space with a lower headcount it is totally possible to get people up and moving to even a solo musician or duo. It all depends on the mood you want to create.

Wedding Jazz Band

May 13, 2020
Weddings
jazz cocktail hour, soho grand hotel, wedding jazz band, Wedding Music

Rum Runners Jazz Trio, at Soho Grand Hotel Rooftop Wedding, Photography by: Delgado Studios 2014

Elegant Live Wedding Music

Hiring a jazz band for your wedding is a timeless and elegant choice for cocktail hour. A jazz group can also be a great fit for dinner and dancing, especially if there is a vocalist. “Jazz” is a wide-ranging genre. There is a big difference between the music of John Coltrane and Michael Buble, but we have clients who request songs by both artists! Music Dept founder, Adam Lomeo, is a NYC jazz guitarist, so jazz is very near to our heart and we are so honored when our client’s request jazz music for their wedding.

Jazz Bands For Hire

  • Adam Lomeo
    Adam Lomeo
  • Anthony Fuscaldo
    Anthony Fuscaldo
  • Erica Mancini
    Erica Mancini
  • Extra Syrup Horns
    Extra Syrup Horns
  • James White Solo Party Sax
    James White Solo Party Sax
  • Keyboard and Sax Duo
    Keyboard and Sax Duo
  • Lily White Trio
    Lily White Trio
  • Margot
    Margot
  • Orquesta Afinke
    Orquesta Afinke
  • Ragtime Jazz Band
    Ragtime Jazz Band
  • Rum Runners Jazz
    Rum Runners Jazz
  • Stella Crispo
    Stella Crispo
  • The Crown Trio & Quartet
    The Crown Trio & Quartet

Wedding Jazz Band FAQ

What type of Weddings are Jazz bands good for?

Jazz groups are almost always a great choice for a cocktail hour. We don’t typically recommend Jazz music for ceremony. However, our jazz musicians are very versatile and can definitely play mellow instrumental covers or classical for your ceremony

Will People Dance to a Wedding Jazz Band?

If you and your guests love swing music like Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, and Mike Buble they will have a blast dancing to a jazz band. That said, if a great dance party is essential to your wedding we recommend a versatile band that can shift into some pop, R&B, and other dance friendly styles. It’s also great to combine a classic jazz band with a DJ.

How Many Musicians are in a Jazz Group?

Solo jazz guitar or keyboard are great choices for ceremony or cocktail hour. Duos, Trios, and Quartets are also great for upbeat and elegant atmosphere at any point during the wedding. If you want to feature a jazz band during your wedding reception we recommend 5 or more players and a vocalist.

Do They Take Requests?

Absolutely! Jazz musicians have extremely wide-repertoire. If you’re looking for jazz songs then chances are they already know them. However, if many of the requests are from an entirely different genre it might be a good idea to look at one of our other bands. We have bands that do a great play Jazz for cocktail hour as background, but the groups on this page can play a full evening of great and varied jazz songs. These are concert-level NYC jazz musicians who have the event savvy to step up and deliver for your wedding.

Surprise First Dance at Brooklyn Bridge Park

June 26, 2019
Articles and Tips, Events, News, Weddings
brooklyn weddings, First Dance, lgbt weddings, micro-weddings, street musicians, Wedding Music

Who doesn’t love a surprise first dance! Especially when it’s set to live music overlooking Brooklyn Bridge.

Amy reached out a few months prior to her May 2019 elopement in NYC. She explained that she and her fiancee lived in Chicago and they planned to elope in NYC and fly out for Europe the very same day. Since they wouldn’t be having a wedding reception, she wanted to have a very intimate and low-key surprise first dance.

The plan:

Amy and Krystal would elope at City Hall and then cross over to Brooklyn Bridge park for pictures. The micro-wedding party included a handful of close girlfriends and the photographer. While the group walked along the boardwalk our musicians would begin to play John Legend’s “All of Me” and follow up with “Your Song” by Elton John.

Are you thinking about a celebrating with a surprise musical performance?

Plan Surprise Music!

We worked super closely on the planning and coordination with Alexis at City Love Photography. She took all the amazing photos in this post and was instrumental in bringing the day together!

Walking toward the big surprise….

Our mobile “busking” duo included Adam Lomeo on Guitar and Brittany Henderson on vocals. We set up with a battery powered PA system, which really helped as we had to contend with some wind off the water.

Brittany and Adam: pre-set on the boardwalk
Amy and Krystal

Alexis Buryk for City Love Photography

The surprise came off beautifully and it was an absolutely perfect moment with hugs and tears all around!

Elton John’s “Your Song” Live at Brooklyn Bride Park
John Legend’s “All of Me” live at Brooklyn Bridge Park
The Band with the Brides and Friends :)

Who are you planning to wow with a surprise performance?

Plan Surprise Music!

All About First Dance Instruction

March 6, 2019
Articles and Tips, News, Weddings
Dance Instruction, Dance Lessons, First Dance, Wedding

At Music Dept we love it when couples have lots of fun with the first dance. In this article we are sharing first dance instruction tips from our guest blogger, Simone Assoboeck. 

An instructor for the first dance!?

It is becoming very common for couples to hire a dance instructor to get ready for the big day. Ballroom dancing just isn’t as common as it used to be and it can be nerve-wracking for couples. Oftentimes its not about being a bad dancer or shy person, its just that most of us were never taught the basic steps! A dance instructor can quickly put you at ease. 

When it comes to dance instructors in New York my absolute favorite is Simone at Dance Together NYC . My wife and I have even taken her classes. I’d like to turn the page over to Simone so that she can share her expert tips:

4 First Dance Instruction Tips from Simone Assboeck:


 
-Working with my wedding couples I always like to encourage them to start 2-3 months in advance. I know it sounds like a long time but with this time frame its not a big deal if schedules get crazy and you have to miss a week.
 
– Weekly lessons are the best way to learn. We are creating a new muscle reflex and that learning calls for regular repetition. Weekly dance lessons will make you comfortable and in the moment on the night of the celebration. 
 
– Be ready 10 days before the wedding. Those last 10 days can get busy. Its great to use the last lesson just for polishing purposes.
 
– Its not just about that one dance! Taking dance lessons is a wonderful way to create a new skill set with each other. All the holiday parties and friend’s weddings are great opportunities to use the moves you have learned.
 
 
Simone Assboeck, Dance Together NYC
 


Dance Instructor as Day of Entertainer

Aside from coaching and rehearsing for the big-dance, I’ve also seen situations where the couple’s dance teacher attends the wedding and acts like a grown up version of a mitzvah motivator! 

Suppose that the groom is from Colombia and the bride’s family is from Minnesota: Half the room will have been salsa-dancing all their lives, but wouldn’t it be fun to have an instructor on-hand to help the newcomers find the steps and bring the dance floor together?

Still not feeling the urge to move and groove?

Some couples love to be spotlighted on the dance-floor, but others would just assume skip the dance entirely. Of course we have done weddings without a first dance and that is OK. For our “dance-a-phobic” couples we make sure that our band or DJ knows how to create a succinct and graceful first dance. We observe the body language of both the couple to know when to fade out. I always tell a nervous couple that we won’t leave them out there too long, but most of the time they end up really loving the moment and dancing to the end of the song.

See you all on the dance-floor!

 
4 First Dance Instruction Tips from Simone Assboeck
Simone Assboeck with Dance Together NYC

MusicDept’s Quora Answer About Wedding Music on a Budget

February 18, 2019
News, Weddings
Insider Tips, Quora, Wedding Budget, Wedding Music

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-best-tips-for-decreasing-the-cost-of-a-wedding-mainly-the-big-ticket-items-like-venue-food-alcohol-photography-and-music/answer/Adam-Lomeo

How do you get the most value from your wedding music budget? Some people say that the way to decrease cost for music is to skip the live band and DJ. After all you can just use a playlist from an ipod. I’m a bit-biased as the owner of The Music Dept – Home, but this is more like faking music than decreasing the cost. Here are my four in-depth steps to get the most from your music budget:

Four Tips to Get Most Value from Wedding Music Budget

  1. Choose one band/company to handle all of your musical elements on that day. Look for versatile and flexible artists to cover Ceremony, Cocktail Hour, and Reception. A single provider creates efficiencies that will save you money. Ask for reviews, check Yelp, and don’t rule someone out just because they don’t have a flashy website or video. Many of the best musicians for your wedding are too busy playing weddings to focus on their self-promotion and web presence. This is a referral based business, so trust in your friend’s reviews and the feeling you get from a phone consultation. I can often save a client lots of money if they are willing to go with a slightly older artist or someone who doesn’t have a video. People today feel reassured by performers with top promotional materials and glamorous Instagram pages. However, there are TONS of great people out there who don’t feel the need to “sell” a skeptical client because they are happy just working hard and making couples happy every weekend.
  2. The biggest drivers for the cost of a live wedding performance are preparation, expertise/experience, travel, and reserving the date (ie: turning down other opportunities that might arise.) Therefore the majority of the cost is built into the first hour. If you’re hiring a 6-piece band for the reception they can probably offer a duo for your cocktail hour for just a few hundred dollars. If you were to hire a String Duo that came just to play the cocktails it would certainly be above $500. There are also musicians that can lead the music for ceremony and cocktails while also DJing for the reception. The bottom line is that once musicians are at your wedding its in your best interest to have them play as many styles and hours as possible. This is an all around win because once the musicians are onsite, setup, and in-groove of performance they are happy to keep entertaining while earning more money for that date. With that in mind, I would be careful with anyone that gives you a fixed-flat hourly rate(ie: one hour $400; four hours $1600.) Its just not how the business works.
  3. Choose which of the three sections of the wedding(Ceremony, Cocktails, Reception) is most important to you and share this with your band/music agency. They can suggest the best way to utilize your budget. Here are some scenarios that can fit within a total of $2–3k:
  • If you absolutely dream of having a String Quartet for your ceremony you can save money by having both the cocktail hour and Reception played by the DJ.
  • If you’re crowd isn’t into dancing you can have a small and versatile band of top musicians cover all three sections(Ceremony, solo; Cocktails, jazz duo; Dinner and Reception; Quartet with One-Singer.)
  • If you must have Greek Dancing at the Wedding Reception start your search for that specialty element and work backwards from there(eg: Greek Trio for Dinner/Dancing, DJ for cocktails and other parts of reception, Solo Musician from the Greek Band for Ceremony-if you don’t want Greek for the ceremony make sure he can play other styles.)

Lastly, the best way to save money is not to start by picking your dream band and then trying to negotiate them down to your actual budget. Music is a business like any other there are real costs for band(s), individual musicians, and agencies. There is a tipping point in negotiation at which the price becomes too low for the performance to be up to the usual standard. A reputable pro will walk away before things get to this point, but situations where companies will do anything to close the contract are a recipe for disaster(and nasty Yelp reviews!) Suppose that the keyboard player is working for 40% less than usual that day. So, he decides not to cancel that last lesson he teaches. He leaves a little later than the extra-conservative usual, hits some traffic, and he’s late for the ceremony. Or perhaps the DJ usually rents an extra high-quality wireless mic for a wedding in the super-frequency jammed area of midtown Manhattan. But with the negotiated price the rental cost is the difference between whether or not its a date worth taking, so the speeches are interrupted by static interference.

99% of wedding musicians will go above and beyond for their clients. This is a customer serviced based business and everyone is almost trained to say ‘yes.’ However, if the budget is tight and musicians are trying to over-deliver there can be a snowball effect where little details that would normally be addressed can go by the wayside and the success of the performance can be endangered. The blame for the situations above would rest on the musicians, but I’ve seen many situations(especially involving high-ticket bands and DJs) where an over-negotiating sales person leads to a booking that really shouldn’t have happened and in the harsh reality of live performance the little details that where overlooked can become glaring mistakes. Again, an experienced professional will recognize this danger and walk away or scale back the overall scope of the music services before committing to a wedding they can’t deliver with aplomb. However, couples should be aware of this potential pitfall if they drive a hard bargain for the lowest possible price a vendor will work at.

A limited wedding music budget should never stop everyone from having an incredible time. If both the couple and musicians are smart, resourceful, and flexible its really not that hard to enjoy incredible music throughout the wedding.

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